Undoubtedly, fixity and perseverance in manners, culture and customs of every society come off with the true training of new generation and benefit of Islamic manners and Ahl al-bayt’s state. The politeness in the writing which we are dealing with in this article means proper conduct and niceties: in other words keeping everything in balance and in the graceful action, which is first, lawful and second optional. In the continuation of the article we proceed with the importance of politeness, reasons and factors of teaching politeness and its barriers. It is hoped that readers will succeed in the training job with the benefit of this writing and reliance on Ahl al-bayt (pbut)